Plan Ahead.

As with all of your other duties as the best man / brides maid, you need to plan ahead when it comes to hiring strippers for the bucks or hens party. If you wait until the last minute to schedule the girls or guys for the night, you are bound to wind up with a couple of gorillas or no one at all. Trust me, I’ve seen this way too often to know this is the most common failure of a bucks or hens party. You should book the strippers as soon as you know the date of the party, this way you will wind up with the hottest strippers and you will be seen as the king for years to come.

Ask Around.

When you are going to start the process of finding a couple of strippers for your bachelor party the best thing to do is to ask around. There is always someone who knows way more than he should about the local strippers. If you should come up short asking your friends for advice on who to contact for the strippers you should be looking for new friends now.

Tell Them What You Want.

Now that you have chosen the service you want to work with it’s time to talk about what you expect. Waiting until the strippers arrive to discuss what you want to see in the show leaves you with very little to negotiate with. Not to mention should you not be able to come to an agreement, setting expectations early gives you the opportunity to find someone else. If you expect to see a Lesbian Show let them know. It is also important to discuss what is included in the fee you discuss.

Pictures of the Strippers.

It’s always a good idea to see what you are getting ahead of time. People who are trying to sell you a service may tend to boast a little more than they should about their strippers. Some agencies will have a web site where you can see the girls you have to choose from. On the web sites look for pictures that look “real” a picture from 1980 done by glamour shots is not good enough.

Don’t Pay In Advance.

Some of the more questionable services will request you pay the entire fee up front. This is a sure sign of someone just trying to rip you off. If you pay up front the strippers may show up but you are likely to not get what you paid for.

When The Strippers Arrive.

When the strippers arrive at your bachelor party you should take care of a little business before getting down to pleasure. Review what has been agreed to and for how much. In most cases the girls will ask for the remaining balance when they arrive. Give them nothing more than the agreed to price. I have seen several guys give tips before the show gets started in hopes of getting a better show, it never works. Save the tips for during the show to keep the party going. Remember, if they already have all your money, what’s the incentive for them to stick around? Another recommendation I always give is to make sure the strippers feel like they are guests at your bachelor party and not just hired entertainment. The more fun the girls are having, the more likely they are to make sure all of you have a great time at the bachelor party.